Pain, Personal

I’m Stuck | I can’t go back, don’t know how to move forward

I’m at that point, I can’t go back and I don’t know the way forward; I’m stuck. I don’t know what to do, what my solution should be? This happens when I complete a project I set out to do. Sometimes it’s the feeling of doing something with little to no productivity that leaves me stuck. Occasionally, it’s the transition between an old and a new venture that gets me here. However, I think it’s deep down it’s realizing that what I’m doing is not my path, does not sit well with me.

The last time I was here, I took my book and wrote down my next steps. One side included what I was good at; my skills, my current emotion. The other section expounded on how I could change my state, my condition, my environment. Then, I broke down the solutions into small steps, who would I contact, where I would go and which ways were the easiest and best for me to accomplish them. I did considerably well but now it seems I’m lost again.

Do my dreams and goals change in a period of months or I only write the short-term ones? Maybe. Do I see myself doing these things into my fifties or sixties? No. How do I break down a plan that should take years into small actionable bits? I found this helpful. Can I guarantee this will not happen again? No. How do I make sure that I at least stay on the path I love? I hope to implement this.

Are you stuck?

I feel I’ve lost my purpose and it sucks. I’m not sure if there’s someone whose always motivated and doing what they want 24/7. I understand time and again I’ll be back here. My solution is to find a way, a reminder to get back on track. However, I don’t have surefire way.

Are you stuck too? How do get out of it?

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